February 11, 2016
I've had children leave the program early as well. With the first girl, her mom was a single mother and disappeared - CI didn't know where they went. My second child to leave was already in Columbia. Her father had recovered from an injury and the family no longer wanted to comply with the requirements; however, they are in contact through FB and seem to be doing well. My next teen from the Philippines left before she turned 19, but right after graduating high school. CI told me that it is not uncommon for that to happen there as the teens hope to open a space for a younger child to be sponsored once they've finished school. The most recent teen girl to leave was from India. My understanding was that she left shortly after I was expecting her to get her scores back for the exam to attend 11th & 12th grades. No real reason was given, but based on the timing, I do wonder if she didn't pass and her parents had her start working or made plans for her to marry :-( On the upside, I've had two boys graduate the program after they turned 19 as well! I have another girl who has finished high school in Guate and is on track to graduate this year and another Filipino girl who also finished high school and will graduate next year. So, there are definitely success stories of children staying in the program to full graduation age . . . and even some, in more internet-connected countries especially, who stay in contact after leaving.
I too have chosen to select new children to sponsor when this happens. While it's hard not to form some bond with the kids, I want to continue to help others. With kids I've had for many years, I often sponsor siblings or other family members (one graduated boy is a sibling of a child I still sponsor, I sponsor 2 other sibling sets and I sponsor the toddler nephew of one of my teens), which I hope makes it less likely they'll leave!
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