March 26, 2017
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Nicky08Es
Nicky08Es said:
Thank you so much for your reply! If it is alright to ask, I would like to know more about how you chose to spend time with your sponsored kid and how was the interaction over all. What kind of activities did you do? How long did you spend with your kid(s)? Do you speak the langauge of were you need of a translator if so how was the experience?
Thank you very much for you time and for sharing your experiences with me.
Sorry, I thought I answered this! I speak a little Spanish, enough that I could carry on a small conversation with Juan when we were riding bikes or I was on rides with the kids (without the translator), but it wouldn't have been completely necessary. The staff will usually suggest an activity, but this does depend on where the child lives - if somewhere further away, like Patulul, you'll spend several hours driving, so you're pretty much limited to lunch and a home visit . . . although, next time I'm going to see if we can do lunch and shopping since I've seen the home twice already. The only upside to repeated home visits is to note if anything, like a roof, has deteriorated.
If you're interested in the full details, I have a blog about my visits with my kids and some of the touristy activities I did as well. I can send you the link via a post to your profile if you're interested.
In regards to overall interaction, the families all seem to be proud of their country and their homes - they take good care of what they have. Because of this, I've kept my home photos to a minimum because it feels a little exploitative to want to photograph everything . . . although, I feel like that would help me target projects later! They've all been very grateful and sweet, although some of the kids have been quite shy. It's a big deal to the kids when a sponsor visits and, when you go through the center, it's nearly like your visiting royalty with the way the other kids ooh and ah. I even had one really young girl who was convinced I was her sponsor and ran up to hug me and give me her candy - I didn't have the heart to explain that I wasn't her sponsor! She had to have been about four, so she was content just thinking she saw her sponsor. :-)
The families so far have been very conscious of the cost of things and buying only what was allowed and I've had to insist that I want them to get what they need and throw in a few goodies - Lovely went back for a few personal hygiene items after I made it clear that I didn't bring gifts this time because I wanted them to treat themselves to what they REALLY need, not what I think they need. The only exceptions have been when the kids were older and the family wanted to buy them a more expensive, really good quality pair of shoes to look nice for work. Both of teens who graduated the program had mothers who expressed this wish and it makes sense to me - you need to look your best for interviews! I may have just gotten lucky, but I've never felt like the family was trying to take advantage of the offer to do more, although the staff will try to keep it reasonable and I've had to insist, "no, seriously. I want the 25 kg bag unless we can't get it to their house easily and it will be a hardship for them to carry it." I have nothing bad to say about my visits and you learn a lot about the family situation.
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